﻿{"id":5971,"date":"2016-11-18T18:04:21","date_gmt":"2016-11-18T10:04:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.writtenchinese.com\/?p=5971"},"modified":"2022-06-04T12:26:05","modified_gmt":"2022-06-04T04:26:05","slug":"how-to-relax-converse-and-eat-well-in-a-chinese-restaurant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.writtenchinese.com\/how-to-relax-converse-and-eat-well-in-a-chinese-restaurant\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Relax, Converse and Eat Well in a Chinese Restaurant"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Eating and drinking in Chinese culture is quite different to that of the West. The idea of Chinese dining etiquette is said to have come from the Zhou Dynasty (1045-256 BC) and is often a noisy and social affair. Dining in restaurants with friends, family or colleagues is enveloped in respect for your elders and superiors and making sure other members of your party are satisfied is extremely important.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although the conversation around the table does not just focus on the food (although discussing dishes is often a big part), here are some words and phrases that would be used whether you are being treated to dinner by your boss, socialising with friends or having a family dinner.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Getting a Table and Ordering<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E9%A5%BF%E4%BA%86%E5%90%97&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4f60\u997f\u4e86\u5417<\/a><\/span>\uff1f(n\u01d0 \u00e8 le ma?)&nbsp;Are you hungry?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E9%A5%BF%E6%AD%BB%E4%BA%86&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u997f\u6b7b\u4e86<\/a><\/span>\uff01(w\u01d2 \u00e8&nbsp;s\u01d0 le)&nbsp;&nbsp;I\u2019m starving!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E8%82%9A%E5%AD%90%E9%A5%BF%E4%BA%86&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u809a\u5b50\u997f\u4e86<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 d\u00f9&nbsp;zi \u00e8 le)&nbsp;I\u2019m hungry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E4%B8%8D%E9%A5%BF&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u4e0d\u997f<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 b\u00f9 \u00e8)&nbsp;I\u2019m not hungry.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E4%B8%8D%E5%A4%AA%E9%A5%BF&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u4e0d\u592a\u997f<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 b\u00f9 t\u00e0i \u00e8) &nbsp;I\u2019m not very hungry<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E6%83%B3%E5%90%83&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u60f3\u5403<\/a><\/span>\u3002\u3002\u3002(w\u01d2&nbsp;xi\u01ceng ch\u012b)&nbsp;I want to eat&#8230;.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E4%B8%8D%E6%83%B3%E5%90%83&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u4e0d\u60f3\u5403<\/a><\/span>\u3002\u3002\u3002(w\u01d2 b\u00f9&nbsp;xi\u01ceng ch\u012b)&nbsp;I don\u2019t want to eat&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%9D%90%E8%BF%99%E9%87%8C&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5750\u8fd9\u91cc<\/a><\/span>\u3002 (zu\u00f2 zh\u00e8&nbsp;l\u01d0) Sit here.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E9%9A%8F%E4%BE%BF%E5%9D%90&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u968f\u4fbf\u5750<\/a><\/span>\u3002(su\u00ed&nbsp;bi\u00e0n zu\u00f2) Sit where ever you want.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%AF%B7%E6%B8%85%E7%90%86%E4%B8%80%E4%B8%8B&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8bf7\u6e05\u7406\u4e00\u4e0b<\/a><\/span>\u3002(q\u012bng&nbsp;l\u01d0 y\u012b xi\u00e0) Please clean the table.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%BF%98%E6%9C%89%E6%9B%B4%E5%A5%BD%E7%9A%84%E5%BA%A7%E4%BD%8D%E5%90%97&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8fd8\u6709\u66f4\u597d\u7684\u5ea7\u4f4d\u5417<\/a><\/span>\uff1f(h\u00e1i&nbsp;y\u01d2u g\u00e8ng&nbsp;h\u01ceo de zu\u00f2&nbsp;w\u00e8i ma)&nbsp;Do you have a better table? (nicer place)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E5%96%9C%E6%AC%A2%E5%90%83%E8%BE%A3%E5%90%97&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4f60\u559c\u6b22\u5403\u8fa3\u5417<\/a><\/span>\uff1f(n\u01d0 x\u01d0&nbsp;huan ch\u012b l\u00e0 ma?)&nbsp;Do you like spicy food?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E7%82%B9%E8%8F%9C%E4%BA%86%E5%90%97&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4f60\u70b9\u83dc\u4e86\u5417<\/a><\/span>\uff1f(n\u01d0 di\u01cen&nbsp;c\u00e0i le ma?)&nbsp;Have you ordered?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%9C%8D%E5%8A%A1%E5%91%98&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u670d\u52a1\u5458<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(f\u00fa&nbsp;w\u00f9&nbsp;yu\u00e1n)&nbsp;Waiter<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/meinv\/2811\/3\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u7f8e\u5973<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(m\u011bi&nbsp;n\u01da)&nbsp;Female waitress (beautiful girl)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%AF%B7%E7%BB%99%E6%88%91%E8%8F%9C%E5%8D%95&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8bf7\u7ed9\u6211\u83dc\u5355<\/a><\/span>\u3002(q\u01d0ng g\u011bi w\u01d2 c\u00e0i&nbsp;d\u0101n)&nbsp;Please give me the menu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E6%83%B3%E5%90%83%E4%BB%80%E4%B9%88&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4f60<\/a><\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E6%83%B3%E5%90%83%E4%BB%80%E4%B9%88&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u60f3<\/a><\/span><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E6%83%B3%E5%90%83%E4%BB%80%E4%B9%88&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5403\u4ec0\u4e48<\/a><\/span>\uff1f(n\u01d0 xi\u01ceng&nbsp;ch\u012b sh\u00e9n&nbsp;me) What do you want to eat?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/suibian\/1644\/3\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u968f\u4fbf<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(su\u00ed&nbsp;bi\u00e0n)&nbsp;You choose<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E6%9D%A5%E7%82%B9%E8%8F%9C&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u6765\u70b9\u83dc<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 l\u00e1i di\u01cen&nbsp;c\u00e0i)&nbsp;I will order for us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you go out to eat with Chinese friends or colleagues, it is customary for the host to choose the food, so often only one menu is provided, even if there is a large party.&nbsp;This kind of situation happens more often in a formal situation especially if the host would like to impress business partners or associates with good food. Amongst younger friends, you can ask who wants to order, but also ask what that the others would like to eat. Once the host has ordered all the food is placed in the center, often on a lazy susan, so that everyone can help themselves to the dishes. If you\u2019re visiting a western-style restaurant the service will be similar to a Chinese restaurant, and so you may need to ask for another menu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"354\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-spoon-fork-knife.png?resize=900%2C354&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6547\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-spoon-fork-knife.png?w=1036&amp;ssl=1 1036w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-spoon-fork-knife.png?resize=510%2C201&amp;ssl=1 510w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-spoon-fork-knife.png?resize=100%2C39&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-spoon-fork-knife.png?resize=300%2C118&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-spoon-fork-knife.png?resize=768%2C302&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-spoon-fork-knife.png?resize=1024%2C403&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><br><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%AF%B7%E5%86%8D%E7%BB%99%E6%88%91%E4%B8%80%E4%B8%AA%E8%8F%9C%E5%8D%95&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8bf7\u518d\u7ed9\u6211\u4e00\u4e2a\u83dc\u5355<\/a><\/span>\u3002(q\u01d0ng z\u00e0i g\u011bi w\u01d2 y\u012b g\u00e8 c\u00e0i&nbsp;d\u0101n) Please give me another menu.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%AF%B7%E7%BB%99%E6%88%91%E4%B8%80%E5%8F%8C%E7%AD%B7%E5%AD%90&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8bf7\u7ed9\u6211\u4e00\u53cc\u7b77\u5b50<\/a><\/span>\u3002(q\u01d0ng g\u011bi w\u01d2 y\u012b shu\u0101ng ku\u00e0i&nbsp;zi)&nbsp;Please give me a pair of chopsticks<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/shaozi\/12498\/2\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u52fa\u5b50<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(sh\u00e1o&nbsp;zi)&nbsp;Spoon<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/zhijin\/15952\/3\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u7eb8\u5dfe<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(zh\u01d0&nbsp;j\u012bn)&nbsp;Tissues<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you eat in a Chinese restaurant, chopsticks and spoons will be the only utensil available to eat with. Furthermore, touching food with your fingers is usually frowned upon, so learning to use chopsticks before travelling to China is advisable. Of course, as a foreigner, you can usually get away with sloppy chopstick skills, and you will probably get a few laughs at the table before someone starts to put food in your bowl to save you some face.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Drinking!<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E6%83%B3%E5%96%9D%E9%A5%AE%E6%96%99%E5%90%97&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4f60\u60f3\u559d\u996e\u6599\u5417<\/a><\/span>\uff1f(n\u01d0 xi\u01ceng h\u0113 y\u01d0n&nbsp;li\u00e0o ma?)&nbsp;Would you like a drink?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E6%B8%B4%E5%90%97&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4f60\u6e34\u5417<\/a><\/span>\uff1f(n\u01d0 k\u011b ma?)&nbsp;Are you thirsty?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E6%B8%B4%E4%BA%86&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u6e34\u4e86<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 k\u011b le)&nbsp;I\u2019m thirsty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E4%B8%8D%E6%B8%B4&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u4e0d\u6e34<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 b\u00f9&nbsp;k\u011b) &nbsp;I\u2019m not thirsty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E4%B8%8D%E5%A4%AA%E6%B8%B4&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u4e0d\u592a\u6e34<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 b\u00f9&nbsp;t\u00e0i k\u011b)&nbsp;I\u2018m not very thirsty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E4%B8%8D%E6%83%B3%E5%96%9D&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u4e0d\u60f3\u559d<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 b\u00f9 xi\u01ceng h\u0113)&nbsp;I don\u2019t want to drink.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E6%83%B3%E5%96%9D&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u60f3\u559d<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2&nbsp;xi\u01ceng h\u0113)&nbsp;I want to drink.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Although beer, wine and (expensive) spirits are consumed more and more in China, the Chinese speciality <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/baijiu\/8193\/3\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u767d\u9152<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(b\u00e1i&nbsp;ji\u01d4)&nbsp;is still a must-have at business dinners and special occasions. Most of the time, customers take their own alcohol to a restaurant. If we translate \u767d\u9152 (b\u00e1i&nbsp;ji\u01d4)&nbsp;directly into English, the result would be \u2018white wine\u2019. However, \u767d\u9152 (b\u00e1i ji\u01d4), is actually a spirit, distilled from grains. It tends to be extremely strong and also an acquired taste. As it is often <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/ganbei\/3240\/2\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5e72\u676f<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(g\u0101n&nbsp;b\u0113i)-ed from shot glasses the flavour is not often the focus, which could be a blessing or a curse.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019 want to drink actual \u2018white wine\u2019, make sure to ask for <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E7%99%BD%E8%91%A1%E8%90%84%E9%85%92&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u767d\u8461\u8404\u9152<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(b\u00e1i p\u00fa&nbsp;tao ji\u01d4), which means \u2018white grape wine\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E6%83%B3%E5%96%9D%E7%82%B9%E4%BB%80%E4%B9%88&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4f60\u60f3\u559d\u70b9\u4ec0\u4e48<\/a><\/span>\uff1f (n\u01d0 xi\u01ceng h\u0113 di\u01cen sh\u00e9n&nbsp;me?)&nbsp;What would you like to drink?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-6548\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-waiter-menu.png?resize=900%2C347&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"347\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-waiter-menu.png?w=1101&amp;ssl=1 1101w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-waiter-menu.png?resize=510%2C197&amp;ssl=1 510w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-waiter-menu.png?resize=100%2C39&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-waiter-menu.png?resize=300%2C116&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-waiter-menu.png?resize=768%2C296&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-waiter-menu.png?resize=1024%2C395&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/pijiu\/3369\/3\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5564\u9152<\/a><\/span>(p\u00ed&nbsp;ji\u01d4) Beer<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/jiu\/5923\/1\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u9152<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(ji\u01d4)&nbsp;Wine<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%A8%81%E5%A3%AB%E5%BF%8C&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5a01\u58eb\u5fcc<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(w\u0113i&nbsp;sh\u00ec&nbsp;j\u00ec) Whiskey\/Whisky<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/guozhi\/17578\/3\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u679c\u6c41<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(gu\u01d2&nbsp;zh\u012b)&nbsp;Fruit juice (fruit + \u679c\u6c41)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%8B%8F%E6%89%93%E6%B0%B4&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u82cf\u6253\u6c34<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(s\u016b&nbsp;d\u00e1&nbsp;shu\u01d0)&nbsp;Soda<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/shui\/1621\/1\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6c34<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(shu\u01d0)&nbsp;Water<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you ask for water in a Chinese restaurant, it will normally be hot or warm water. To make sure you get room temperature or cold water, ask for the following:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/bingshui\/9914\/2\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u51b0\u6c34<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(b\u012bng&nbsp;shu\u01d0) ice water<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/lengshui\/8723\/3\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u51b7\u6c34<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(l\u011bng&nbsp;shu\u01d0) cold water<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/ganbei\/3240\/2\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5e72\u676f<\/a><\/span>!&nbsp;(g\u0101n&nbsp;b\u0113i)&nbsp;Cheers<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u5e72\u676f (g\u0101n&nbsp;b\u0113i)&nbsp;does not really translate to \u2018cheers\u2019, it means \u2018dry glass\u2019, although the meaning behind it is the same. If someone says \u2018\u5e72\u676f\u2019 (g\u0101n&nbsp;b\u0113i) you are expected to down the glass of <span style=\"font-style: italic;\">whatever<\/span>&nbsp;you are drinking. No matter whether you are drinking \u767d\u9152 (b\u00e1i&nbsp;ji\u01d4), \u7ea2\u9152 (h\u00f3ng&nbsp;ji\u01d4)&nbsp;or very expensive whiskey, you would usually \u5e72\u676f (g\u0101n&nbsp;b\u0113i). If you aren\u2019t feeling the \u5e72\u676f (g\u0101n&nbsp;b\u0113i)&nbsp;, you could always suggest \u2018\u534a\u676f\u2019 (b\u00e0n b\u0113i)&nbsp;, meaning a \u2018half glass\u2019. You can also call <span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/suiyi\/3203\/3\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u968f\u610f<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(su\u00ed&nbsp;y\u00ec) meaning \u2018at will\u2019, so you are free to drink as little or as much as you wish.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Like in the west, it is customary to \u2018clink\u2019 glasses when \u5e72\u676f (g\u0101n&nbsp;b\u0113i)-ing. It is respectful to clink below the rim of your hosts glass.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%BF%99%E6%98%AF%E6%88%91%E7%9A%84&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8fd9\u662f\u6211\u7684<\/a><\/span>\u3002(zh\u00e8 sh\u00ec w\u01d2&nbsp;de) This is mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%BF%99%E6%98%AF%E4%BB%96%E7%9A%84&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8fd9\u662f\u4ed6\u7684<\/a><\/span>\u3002(zh\u00e8 sh\u00ec t\u0101 de)&nbsp;This is his.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%92%8C%E4%BB%96%E4%B8%80%E6%A0%B7&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u548c\u4ed6\u4e00\u6837<\/a><\/span>\u3002(h\u00e9 t\u0101 y\u012b y\u00e0ng)&nbsp;I want to order the same as him.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E9%86%89%E4%BA%86%E5%90%97&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4f60\u9189\u4e86\u5417<\/a><\/span>\uff1f (n\u01d0 zu\u00ec le ma?) Are you drunk?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E9%86%89%E4%BA%86&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u9189\u4e86<\/a><\/span>\uff01(w\u01d2 zu\u00ec le)&nbsp;I\u2019m drunk!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%A4%9A%E5%96%9D%E4%B8%80%E7%82%B9&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u591a\u559d\u4e00\u70b9<\/a><\/span>\u3002(du\u014d h\u0113 y\u012b di\u01cen)&nbsp;Drink more!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E5%96%9D%E5%BE%97%E5%A4%AA%E5%A4%9A%E4%BA%86&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u559d\u5f97\u592a\u591a\u4e86<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 h\u0113 de t\u00e0i&nbsp;du\u014d le)&nbsp;I drank too much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%B0%91%E5%96%9D%E7%82%B9%E5%84%BF&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5c11\u559d\u70b9\u513f<\/a><\/span>\u3002(sh\u01ceo h\u0113 di\u01cenr&nbsp;) Don\u2019t drink so much!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/worddetail\/suzui\/26228\/2\/1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5bbf\u9189<\/a><\/span>&nbsp;(s\u00f9&nbsp;zu\u00ec)&nbsp;Hangover<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u597d\u5403\u5417\uff1f(h\u01ceo ch\u012b ma?) It is delicious?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"900\" height=\"324\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-bill.png?resize=900%2C324&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-6549\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-bill.png?w=1100&amp;ssl=1 1100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-bill.png?resize=510%2C184&amp;ssl=1 510w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-bill.png?resize=100%2C36&amp;ssl=1 100w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-bill.png?resize=300%2C108&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-bill.png?resize=768%2C276&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/www.writtenchinese.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/11\/Chinese-Restaurants-bill.png?resize=1024%2C369&amp;ssl=1 1024w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><br><br><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E9%97%BB%E8%B5%B7%E6%9D%A5%E5%BE%88%E9%A6%99&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u95fb\u8d77\u6765\u5f88\u9999<\/a><\/span>! (w\u00e9n q\u01d0&nbsp;lai h\u011bn xi\u0101ng) It smells delicious!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E7%9C%8B%E8%B5%B7%E6%9D%A5%E5%BE%88%E5%A5%BD%E5%90%83&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u770b\u8d77\u6765\u5f88\u597d\u5403<\/a><\/span>\uff01(k\u00e0n&nbsp;q\u01d0&nbsp;l\u00e1i h\u011bn h\u01ceo&nbsp;ch\u012b)&nbsp;It looks delicious!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%BC%80%E5%90%83%E4%BA%86&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5f00\u5403\u4e86<\/a><\/span>\uff01(k\u0101i ch\u012b le)&nbsp;Let\u2019s eat!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%87%AA%E5%B7%B1%E6%9D%A5&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u81ea\u5df1\u6765<\/a><\/span>\u3002(z\u00ec&nbsp;j\u01d0l\u00e1i)&nbsp;Help yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%BF%99%E4%B8%AA%E5%BE%88%E5%A5%BD%E5%90%83&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8fd9\u4e2a\u5f88\u597d\u5403<\/a><\/span>\u3002(zh\u00e8&nbsp;ge h\u011bn h\u01ceo&nbsp;ch\u012b)&nbsp;This is delicious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%BE%A3%E4%B8%8D%E8%BE%A3&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8fa3\u4e0d\u8fa3<\/a><\/span>\uff1f(l\u00e0 b\u00f9 l\u00e0)&nbsp;Is it spicy?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%B8%8D%E5%A4%AA%E8%BE%A3&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4e0d\u592a\u8fa3<\/a><\/span>\u3002(b\u00f9 t\u00e0i l\u00e0) Not too spicy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%90%83%E5%90%83%E7%9C%8B&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5403\u5403\u770b<\/a><\/span>\u3002(ch\u012b ch\u012b k\u00e0n)&nbsp;Try eating some.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E4%B8%8D%E5%A4%AA%E5%96%9C%E6%AC%A2&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u4e0d\u592a\u559c\u6b22<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 b\u00f9 t\u00e0i x\u01d0&nbsp;huan)&nbsp;I don&#8217;t like it very much.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%BE%88%E8%B4%B5&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5f88\u8d35<\/a><\/span>\u3002(h\u011bn gu\u00ec)&nbsp;It\u2019s expensive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%BE%88%E4%BE%BF%E5%AE%9C&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u5f88\u4fbf\u5b9c<\/a><\/span>\u3002(h\u011bn pi\u00e1n&nbsp;yi)&nbsp;It\u2019s cheap.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E8%BF%99%E4%B8%AA%E9%9A%BE%E5%90%83%E6%AD%BB%E4%BA%86&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u8fd9\u4e2a\u96be\u5403\u6b7b\u4e86<\/a><\/span>\u3002(zh\u00e8&nbsp;ge n\u00e1n&nbsp;ch\u012b s\u01d0 le) This is awful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%A4%9A%E5%90%83%E7%82%B9%E5%84%BF&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u591a\u5403\u70b9\u513f<\/a><\/span>\u3002(du\u014d ch\u012b di\u01cenr)&nbsp;Eat more!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E5%86%8D%E7%BB%99%E6%88%91%E4%B8%80%E7%82%B9&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u518d\u7ed9\u6211\u4e00\u70b9<\/a><\/span>\u3002(z\u00e0i g\u011bi w\u01d2 y\u012b di\u01cen)&nbsp;Please give me a little more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E4%BD%A0%E5%90%83%E9%A5%B1%E4%BA%86%E5%90%97&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u4f60\u5403\u9971\u4e86\u5417<\/a><\/span>\uff1f(n\u01d0 ch\u012b b\u01ceo le ma?)&nbsp;Are you full?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dictionary.writtenchinese.com\/#sk=%E6%88%91%E5%90%83%E9%A5%B1%E4%BA%86&amp;svt=pinyin\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">\u6211\u5403\u9971\u4e86<\/a><\/span>\u3002(w\u01d2 ch\u012b b\u01ceo le)&nbsp;I\u2018m full.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\"><a 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